obey all the rules, not

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Last week Friday for a friend, a colleague, and a friend and a colleague, agreed to wear some fun new Fall stuff for their Fall Fashion Update. Second son DJ’d, and two youngest daughters were there too. Family affair, just how we like it.

Seems like so many rules going on now: eat this, don’t eat that. wear this, don’t wear that, keep on top of your social media, not. We’re going with what we can when we can.

Wearing some Helmut Lang for all the friends. When asked to show some stuff for others they can have their way. The red was good, first choice probably black, haha. Black stretch leather skirt, total score.

Every day dress, obey the rules, not. Hope you’re all having a great weekend and doing what you can when you can. 🙂 It’s been a downright busy back to school week.

Helmut Lang jacket and skirt | at Tony Walker & Co.

gather it in

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Day-tripped to the place in the country for a summer’s end picnic in, of course, white shirt, blue jeans. Not ready to wear Fall clothes, yet the summer things feel a little tired. Did a DIY dark manicure and grabbed an old dark satchel to set the mood a little.

Seems it’s time to gather it in and begin again. Bittersweet.

Every day dress, gather it in.

White Shirt (old) | Worth New York

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Enamored Hi-Shine Nail Lacquer | 152 BARK! | Marc Jacobs Beauty | at Sephora

Bag (9 years old) | Donna Karan New York

dinner is easy


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This time of year, all you really need to do is gather up what’s good and fresh and put it together. First in, Coho salmon, local corn, homegrown tomatoes, done. Next night, revisited the CA pizza thing, homemade dough with 1 1/4 cups hot water, (perceived temperature even though we do have the thermometer), 2 packages active dry yeast, 1 tablespoon honey (we like it when the hive is still in there), 3 tablespoons olive oil, salt, and 4 cups King Arthur flour. Mix it up in the Kitchen Aid for about 10 minutes, roll it out on the counter, add whatever you like with some more olive oil on top, bake it up in a hot oven, add a green salad, and dinner is easy.

After a day with work, dinner is the treat, and dinner is easy.

Jeans | Slouched Slim | Joe’s Jeans

Shirt | Vince | (from second son’s closet)

about the dress, or two

IMG_1412 IMG_1409 IMG_1413Our fashion colleagues at Tony Walker & Co. give us a great spot to run in and grab a dress, or two, when the occasion calls and we haven’t planned ahead. How does that happen?

Asked about the white dress from last blog post and here’s the deal: saw this Ibis Crossback while shopping with (four) daughters for blue jeans and fell in love. Needed/wanted something new for a summer family event and everything in the current closet felt a little too straight and tailored. Also brought back memories from sixth grade graduation, thirty-three years ago (how does that happen?) and still remember the white floral appliquéd crossback dress that was worn. Kind of crazy how much one can think about clothes. Bought the dress, added a black cashmere shrug and neutral suede shoes.

Daughter’s dress was grabbed on a run-in without her, she wanted/needed a dress too and that was the pick. She thought it was great and felt good in her clothes, we know that that’s important. Thank you all at Tony Walker & Co., you make it easy to dress well, and fast. Always like to support a local family business, too. 🙂

Ibis Crossback Dress | Tibi |  Tony Walker & Co. | now on sale at Tibi

Black Cashmere Shrug | Worth New York

Bond 75 Glove Sandal | Aquazurra | Barneys New York

Daughter’s Dress | Emmy | Parker | Tony Walker & Co.

Daughter’s Sandal (old) | Christian Louboutin

last call

Kind of thinking if you’ve got a bright white dress lingering around, wear it now. (mix in a few dark accessories and you’re good to go).

Wore this one last week Thursday,

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and this one today.

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So ready for a change, aren’t you?

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Every day dress, last call, for the bright white dress, until it feels fresh again, which it will.

throw it all in

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With Labor Day weekend on the horizon it could be a good idea to throw it all in. When driving somewhere it’s so easy to toss stuff in the trunk. Had a great summer, kind of looking forward to some sort of schedule.

Throw it all in, Summer 2014, just about a wrap.

 

(no) more chicken

IMG_1353IMG_1355IMG_1352Husband confided to oldest daughter last night while having a post-work glass of wine that if it was chicken for dinner he wasn’t in. ha

Felt challenged at first, what’s wrong with what works? After a day full of stuff that needs to get done we all need/like to eat. Did chicken tonight, and yes he was in. 🙂

Buy the best that you can, and keep it seasonal too. Note the difference in two pots of basil: one on the left, ordinary store-bought, one on the right, organic specialty nursery stock.

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Makes me think of my clients that tell me (no) more black, or, (not) one more black dress.

When given the choice of dinner or not I’ll take more chicken please, and yes, another black dress.

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Post dinner activities included hand trimming flag-stone pathway. Totally understand how the face, body, and entire cities can sink after a while.

Every day dress, more chicken, and yes, another great black dress. Why not?

start to transition

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Every August, without fail, the current go-to wardrobe seems tired, bright colors so not it, and sandals feel almost too exposed.

White denim, blue denim, a black jacket, a Zara floral silk shirt and an apron seems to be about right.

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The runaround has begun, soccer and field hockey so that’s two drop-offs and two pick-ups, oldest sons have moved out and into a modern two bedroom, oldest daughter home for a week and second daughter not yet ready for back-to-school and to hit the books again.

Full house. The wardrobe, work, and the blog have been second string. It’s okay, it’s a start to transition.

Have learned that good things almost always take longer than ever expected. It’s the start that’s the hardest. Once things get going they always seem to have a way of working out if you keep at it and hang in there.

Every day dress, start to transition. We’ll all be in full swing before we know it. Here’s to new beginnings, almost September. Love that fresh start every Fall, always.

Here’s to your start to transition, whatever that may be. xoxo

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Did the peach cobbler again, this time around forgot to stir in the cup of milk. haha. Multitasking and here there and everywhere is not the best way to get things done, even though it was still delicious.

Every day dress Peach Cobbler:

1/2 cup salted butter, 1 cup all-purpose flour, 1 cup sugar, 1 cup brown sugar, 1 tablespoon baking powder, pinch or two of kosher salt, 1 cup milk, 8 or so fresh peaches, 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice, ground cinnamon.

Melt butter and pour in baking pan. Combine flour, 1 cup white sugar, baking powder, salt and milk, still until just combined. Pour over batter in baking dish.

Meanwhile bring 1 cup brown sugar, sliced peaches with skin on, and lemon juice to a boil over high heat, stirring, and then pour over batter. Sprinkle with cinnamon.

Bake at 375 degrees for 40 to 45 minutes or until perceived doneness. Serve with softened ice cream and while still warm.

 

 

let’s keep this going

IMG_1301Okay, the leather culottes are in the closet, gray cashmere pullover is on order, we’ve seen the brightest moon in six years, and all of a sudden we’re working full days. Even with all that and back to school schedules creeping in, let’s keep this summer time thing going just a bit longer…

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Stopped at the market and picked up all that was fresh. Peaches, of course, and zucchini, eggplant, and plum tomatoes. Had the fish man fillet a full halibut, no photos, we started to have too much fun in the kitchen. Cooked up some pasta too, we had a three-year old and one year old, let’s keep this going.

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While fall clothes and colors are all about us I’m still about white shorts, cotton voile shirts, and black cashmere sweaters borrowed from the husband after a full day in the office.

Every day dress, let’s keep this going, Summer 2014, not over yet.

 

 

crew neck

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Been a little slow with the post feed, sometimes you can feel a little all alone out here. 🙂 Travel schedule’s been crazy, and working a Trunk Show downtown to boot.

So, here goes: Saturday night stood in the closet and pulled on multiple outfits, nothing seemed right. Husband promised two teenaged daughters tickets to One Republic with a friend each and we were the escorts. Final pick? A crew neck sweater from last season and white skinnies. Honestly getting a bit tired of skinny jeans, but they really always seem to work and in a hurry.

Once you get dressed and out the door it all seems easier. The gorgeous beautiful teenagers even had outfit anxiety and they had really nothing to worry about. They chose short shorts of some kind and tank tops, how hard is that when you haven’t hit twenty?

Thinking the crew neck was okay. Every guy in the band, and there were six, had on a crew neck tee. Even THEY had outfit anxiety, or so it seems. Lead singer, Ryan Tedder, expressed at the end of the show before the Louis Armstrong encore that they had toured upstate for what has seemed like forever and next time they pass through they really want some new clothes. They’re pretty much in the big time now and were headed straight to Jersey. How funny, how true. We all like new clothes.

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Next day, Sunday, did the country thing and let it all go. At the end of the day it’s really about family and coming together. Salad, sautéed zucchini, and grilled chicken with bottled BBQ sauce.

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Every day dress, crew neck. Boys in the band? You all looked great, wishing you much continued success.