mashed

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Two Boston MA daughters say ‘keep it short.’ One works, one studies. The one that studies recently made dinner for handsome Boston College coed and he said, ‘what kind of potatoes are these, they are great.’ She said, ‘mashed.’ He asked again, no really, ‘what kind are they?’ Again, she said ‘mashed.’

He wanted to know the brand name. Are you kidding me? Never occurred to her that there was some other thing out there than potatoes, real butter, whole milk, and some kosher salt and pepper.

To keep those you love coming back to your table, make some ‘mashed’ potatoes.

ps. that black cardigan from Friday night out with husband? Wore it again Saturday night out to dinner in ski town, Sunday driving home, Monday for client fittings, Tuesday for client fittings and emergency root canal at 5:50 pm. That makes it five days in a row. Love outfit repeat and real butter. Keep things good and easy.

pss. every day dress needs some help. Couldn’t get the mashed photo and that black cardigan with western belt and blue jeans photo to upload for two days. This is a cottage industry here, jump on in…

 

 

that black cardigan

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Had to write about this: that black cardigan. Professionally I do two things; help women assemble great wardrobes over time and recruit, train, and mentor women that wish to do the same. During all the other hours of the day I do what most women do, spend time with those I love, in my case husband and six children, and cook and eat. Food rates right up there, for sure. Yes, there’s other stuff to do too, housekeeping issues, and we all have those.

While working with women for many years now and having four daughters, it seems to be that women want to look great and feel good in what they are wearing. Fashion confidence comes from fashion comfort. It’s a terrible thing to feel uncomfortable in the clothes you are wearing at any given time.

Okay, so let’s get to the point, right? Just wrapped a two-week Spring Trunk Show and the one piece I showed to every single client was that black cardigan. It got to the point that even my colleague got tired of me going there. Some took me up on it, some, not so much. Why so much effort? Because this thing will take you anywhere.

Worked all day and husband calls and wants me to meet him downtown to celebrate his verdict won. Also had to get 8th grader back to school so she could fulfill her volunteer school play commitment. Only had five minutes to get ready so grabbed that new black cardigan and pulled on the standard, fitted black skirt. Cardigan buttoned up for school, buttoned down for husband date.

At $348 it probably felt like a splurge for the clients that didn’t take it as they probably have a zillion black sweaters. At $348 for busy women that want to look great and feel good in what they are wearing, hands down a steal. Cotton rib, body conscious, slightly sexy, conservative if you want it to be and offering coverage, that black cardigan has it all. Fashion confidence comes from fashion comfort and when you’re out for the day, night, weekend, whatever, make sure that black sweater is the best you can do.

Every day dress does that black cardigan on a friday night out with husband after the middle school drop.

Wishing everyone a great weekend. xoxo

Black Cotton Rib Cardigan | Worth New York Spring 2013

meet manolo

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Dear Mr. Blahnik,

You were warm, charming, engaging and made us feel welcome. You smiled for pictures and signed the soles of our shoes. Your suit was divine, your socks fun, and your shoes, well, you know, simply outstanding.

Will never forget my first pair: stood with new-born sixth baby in my arms while waiting for the daily circle of the UPS truck and my overnight package from Neiman Marcus. The precious box contained the Carolyne Mid-Heel Halter, Dark Brown, still a favorite style. Couldn’t wait to put them on, had really no place in particular to go, simply wanted them desperately. Actually wore them to sixth child’s christening and felt particularly grown-up, not sure if the feeling came more strongly from parenthood or from the shoes.

Twelve years have gone by, several (maybe many) more pair have been added, and your shoes continue to empower. They are beautiful and unbelievably comfortable. The cost, like the heel height, while maybe high at times, has not gone where others have, thank you.

Thank you for your impeccable style and for making women all over feel beautiful, each and every day.

Thank you, Mr. Blahnik, Bergdorf Goodman and professional and gracious second floor shoe staff, the Meet Manolo event was an absolute pleasure.

You are all, quite simply, outstanding.

Very truly yours,

Rebecca

Every day dress does Meet Manolo in NYC, yesterday, March 14th.

 

march madness

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Spring 2013 Trunk Show that ended yesterday and was packed and shipped out to CA all in the same breath has totally created a posting pause. Can’t seem to do it all at the same time and it’s okay.

Getting ready to fly out on the 5:45 am flight tomorrow, Thursday, to present a small grouping of Summer 2013 in NYC. While all the big names have already shown Fall 2013, Summer 2013 in mid-March is feeling just fine.

To actually get out the door tomorrow needed to do some run around and restocking of the food supply. Since it’s snowing and freezing here and causing a bit of a feeling of fashion march madness, relied on black skinnies and fur-lined Jimmy Choo biker boots to get through it all. The lug sole combined with the slip on style just can’t be beat. Love those things.

Wanted to share that yes, it’s been hectic, and yes, we still sat down for dinner. With the lit candles. And fresh tulips and daffodils on the table. The blooming forsythia in the backyard is a total visual and spiritual mood enhancer.

Don’t you love the real life kitchen counter? That’s a half eaten chocolate bunny up front that’s been dunked in the Jiff peanut butter jar. Honest, it’s all cleaned up proper now.

Thinking that the real march madness will be when every day dress wears open toe sandals to New York tomorrow morning with a high temperature expected of 36 degrees. They at least have lug soles. 🙂

Thanks for reading. Every day dress heads out the door for Summer Fashion wearing mad open toe sandals in March, tomorrow. Wishing everyone the brightness of the coming Spring.

xoxo

 

 

let the belt speak

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Quick post: there are days when you really can’t think and again have to rely on a column of black. To continue on yesterday’s theme, black and navy, here is a simple way to get dressed in black and brown.

Classic black crepe wool trousers, fitted bodysuit, and let the belt speak. In this case, brown on black. A little more interesting than black on black for sure. Added a barely there neutral shoe, and, presto, dressed and ready for work.

Every day dress does black again, been trying to move people, and adds a brown belt. Keeping it simple.

Sometimes question myself on why blog? Answer from a younger friend, ‘we’re all really trying to do the same thing, get through the day with grace and maybe a little style, and you inspire us.’ Thank you, younger friend.

Husband walked in the door after his long day at work and said, ‘wow, you look nice.’ Day is done, life is good. Every day dress.

this is it

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Okay, so this is what I really wear when going out for dinner with husband, twenty-two year old son and twenty year old daughter- navy silk blouse and black wool long fitted zippered skirt. Been talking to clients about combining navy and black for multiple seasons, it works, simply try it.

This is it, no recent Botox, no slimming shape-wear. Simply the clothes and the forty-seven year old woman. Love that the new in make-up look is the smokey dark eye and the nude lip- if you like to eat and drink that cherry red lip from last year is kind of hard to keep up. Do the eyes, mouth is fine.

Ken Downing says to wear an armful of bracelets but I only have two, it will have to be.

Here goes, what the heck, every day dress at its most basic: navy silk blouse, black skirt, minimal make-up. Hope you all have a great silk blouse and go to black fitted skirt for when your loved ones want to get together for dinner out.

Thank you husband, will miss you Booie. Twenty-two year old son, always so great to see you. xo

All clothes | Worth New York

sandstorm

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Sometimes you just have to put yourself in the hands of a professional and let the strong wind carry you with it, even when you feel lost in a sandstorm. Every day dress has consulted with women since last week Thursday on matters of what to wear. Trunk Show has been going on, and we have been hard at work.

While there are lots of great fashion blogs out there that show absolutely gorgeous young twenty somethings’ that look great in just about everything, this is a site here for those of us that understand the intricacies of the clothing we wear. What you wear has pretty much everything to do with the lifestyle you lead, therefore the site name, every day dress, and tag line, fashion and lifestyle. When you’ve lived for a while and have what can sometimes feel like never-ending responsibilities, getting dressed well takes time, consideration, thought, and gosh darn it, work. You can pretty much stand in your closet sometimes and feel like you are thirsty in the middle of the desert, or in this analogy, the closet.

Last night, put myself in the hands of fashion consultant husband. He studies the stock market every morning, diligently reads New York Times and Wall Street Journal fashion news, and definitely has his finger on the pulse. From a showroom full of beautiful Spring 2013 clothing and accessories, here is one of his picks:

Sandstorm Ikat Floral Raintreated Print Beaded Dress

He liked the fitted bodice, the waist defining belt, the full throwback kind of skirt. He thought the fabric was interesting and the beaded neckline enough of a statement that nothing else was needed except for some shoes. What he really liked was when I put it on with a low kitten heel, hold your breath twenty year old daughters, this too shall pass. He has read all about that single sole ladylike shoe thing and handing me every darn article he can on that trend. He doesn’t get the aggressive platform look but kind of goes along being the father of four fashion conscious daughters.

So, here is kind of the gist of this blog post. When offered time and guidance, sometimes even when it feels like a strong wind and you’re not really sure you want to go there, get swept up. Probably would have not have really chosen this kind of look for myself but, you know what? When I put it on it made me feel surprisingly chic and modern. It answered the question of what to wear if for say I had a big event to go to this coming weekend.

Trunk Shows with a trusted confident are the perfect way to explore what works for your current wardrobe and lifestyle needs. Hey, everything moves so quickly around us and is constantly changing. Yes, depend on your trusted wardrobe basics but sometimes go beyond a bit and get carried away to a new place fashion wise. Go with a strong wind. Put yourself in the hands of a professional and see where you land. You might just surprise yourself and really like the feeling and the look of trying something that is not your usual.

Every day dress does Trunk Show Spring 2013 with husband at the helm on a late Tuesday evening. Comments or thoughts?

To explore wardrobe basics and maybe something out of the ordinary, Trunk Show continues through the morning of Tuesday, March 12th. Here’s my cell to contact me: 716-445-3033. Would love to see you.

PS thanks for reading and hanging in there with all the indoor photo shots. Looking forward to warmer weather ahead so we can head outdoors again. Every day dress is approaching 30,000 site views. Love this little underground off the radar community. xoxo

Dress | Worth New York Spring 2013

Shoes | Manolo Blahnik | many seasons back

 

 

 

ski house orange


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Orange wall paint, that is. In the kitchen. While clothing, closets, food, and fitness are the focus areas of this blog here, decided that could be stretched a bit with a post about recent upgrade work at the ski house. Qualifies as lifestyle, probably. And, it’s really all about the sharing of ideas and resources.

Husband decided at Thanksgiving that he couldn’t face one more ski season with white laminate kitchen cupboards and countertops, and the seventies style of the two full bathrooms. Called in Ellicottville contractor and restaurateur Mike Nickolson. He got where we were going in about ten minutes flat. No change of footprint anywhere, simply update the fixtures and surfaces. He gave us the proposal, we gave him the keys, and, five weeks later, new kitchen and two baths delivered on time and on budget. Pretty great.

Why the post name ski house orange? In a moment of weakness thought we needed some color consultation for the wall paint so called in local interior designer to spin the color wheel. While she nailed it for the one bathroom the kitchen color she chose just did not work. Dark green- in a kitchen. Should have known better. So, before the full paint job was totally dry husband specified an orange re-do. Explained the desired new color to Mike on the phone from an hour or so away and left it in his good hands. Orange it was.

Ski house is now super warm and cozy. Thank you Mike and crew. The orange heats things up in a good way and makes you want to linger. The new heated floors in the two bathrooms, slam dunk. If you ever have the option of putting heated floors anywhere at all in upstate New York, go for it.

Exercise bike and weight bench on the upper deck in the second bathroom were added in the first upgrade go round four years ago. That space was originally a several person super-sized sunken tub/jacuzzi in lipstick red. It was outrageous. Always wanted to fill the thing with ice and champagne bottles for a super huge party. Exercise bike and weight bench made a healthier alternative, I suppose.

Hope you are all having a great weekend. If you’ve had enough snow, gray skies, and cold temperatures, come on in city side, tomorrow, Monday, March 3 through the morning of Tuesday, March 12, for a look at some really great clothes for your closet. Spring 2013 Trunk Show going on now until the twelfth. Every day dress is getting pretty good at re-dos and upgrades, kitchens, bathrooms, and closets.

ps Aileen, this one’s for you. Enjoy CA.

Kitchen and Baths | G. M Nickolson Construction Inc.


like the wait staff

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Fashion post promised, so, trying to deliver: every time I put on a white shirt and dark pants, oldest daughters reply, oh, no, that looks like the wait staff. Too bad, sometimes you’ve just got to serve. 

For busy day at work when it’s all about you out there- helped seventy or so women pick out a sweater, jacket, and do the Kennedy loop with a scarf, thirty something CEO look official when all she wants to do is wear North Face and Lulu lemon, and stay at home mom and  fitness buff pick out the go-to dress, every day dress was all about ‘like the wait staff.’

White silk blouse, you’ve seen it before, and grey tropical weight wool trouser. ‘Borrowed’ the Ferragamo belt from twenty-two year old son, love to wear menswear. Too tight for his low-rise, kind of fits perfectly for waist-down on the mid-life.

White silk and gray wool, it’s okay. Not necessarily high fashion but long life.  These are the kind of wardrobe basics you go to when you are as busy as all get out.

Come on in, trunk show goes through March 12th. Here to help you put together a wardrobe that reflects you, and works for you with whatever every day presents: seventy, CEO, or stay at home, every day dress is ‘like the wait staff.’

Too bad twenty something year old daughters– the silver sequins will happen, this is not the week. Every day dress does the wait staff look, hey, when you are busy, it works.

All clothes | Worth New York